One of the four virtues for mental peace in Yogic philosophy, is Karuna, which means compassion.
In life, few experiences shake us to our core like redundancy. It’s a reality many of us face at some point, and when it happens, it can feel like the world has shifted beneath our feet. While managing your wellbeing during such a challenging time may seem overrated or even unattainable, the truth is, now more than ever, it’s crucial to be kind to yourself.
Acknowledge Your Emotions: In the face of redundancy, it’s natural to feel a whirlwind of emotions – pain, hurt, loss, or even betrayal. Instead of brushing these feelings aside, take a moment to acknowledge them. It’s not a sign of weakness; it’s an acknowledgment of your humanity. Reflect on the impact this change has on your life and give yourself the space to process.
Remember the time you aced that project? Recognize the emotions tied to your work, and let yourself feel them. It’s okay.
Connect with Loved Ones: When the storm hits, it’s tempting to retreat into solitude. However, spending time with loved ones can be a powerful balm for the soul. Share your feelings, lean on those who care about you, and let their support be a source of strength.
Arrange a cozy dinner with friends or a chat with family (even virtually). A shared laugh or heartfelt conversation can work wonders.
Rediscover Joy in Small Things: In the midst of uncertainty, find solace in small, joyful activities. Whether it’s reading a book, going for a walk, or indulging in a favorite hobby, these moments provide a necessary reprieve and remind you that happiness can be found even in challenging times.
Remember that painting you started but never finished? Now might be the perfect time to dive back in.
Seek Professional Support: It’s easy to downplay the impact of redundancy, convincing yourself that you can handle it alone. However, seeking professional support is not a sign of weakness; it’s a brave step toward healing. Whether through counseling, career coaching, or joining support groups, professionals can provide valuable insights and strategies for navigating this complex terrain.
Just as you’d consult a mechanic for your car troubles, seek guidance from career experts to fine-tune your professional path.
Embrace the Crossroads as an Opportunity: Redundancy, despite its challenges, can be a crossroads leading to new opportunities. Instead of viewing it solely as an end, consider it a chance to pursue something you’ve always wanted. This could be the spark for a career change, entrepreneurial venture, or further education.
That business idea you had in the back of your mind? Now might be the perfect moment to turn it into a reality.
In the grand scheme of life, redundancy is but a thread, not the entire fabric. Work is an important part of our lives but it’s not our whole life. Approach this moment with compassion, acknowledging your emotions, and remember, resilience often blossoms in the most unexpected places. Be kind to yourself, and as you navigate this journey, may you find not only healing but the seeds of new beginnings.
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